Alex, United States

"I would say to keep going and do whatever feels right no matter what anyone thinks. I would have liked to be open about it to my friends sooner."

Was there a definitive moment you realized you were trans? How old were you?

I was about 11-12 and I realized how uncomfortable I felt because of how I looked and how I "had to dress". I believe it happened at a time when I was taking a shower and I just hated seeing myself.

How soon after did you start to make changes? What were these changes?

I started to wear more masculine clothing and more baggy shirts mainly. I also found a sort of workout routine of sorts that helped me feel better about myself.

Have these changes started to make you feel more comfortable in your life and body?

They have, I still hate to see myself when I'm not wearing things that make me feel more comfortable, but I feel much better being myself. This is a somewhat random thing, but I feel that if I ever do get to transition I will most likely be a femboy, because I still find it fun to wear those things, but so hate my body itself.

What would you tell your younger self? Would you do anything differently?

I would say to keep going and do whatever feels right no matter what anyone thinks. I would have liked to be open about it to my friends sooner.

Is there anything else you'd like to share?

I don't believe there is.

Have the gender-affirming steps you’ve taken impacted your overall happiness and sense of well-being?

Yes.