Elliot, Finland (he/him)

“Just be the guy you’ve always been, not the guy the world wants you to be."

Was there a definitive moment you realized you were trans? How old were you?

About 13 years old. Although retrospectively, much earlier.

How soon after did you start to make changes? What were these changes?

I cut my hair first of all, and started presenting more masculine. Changed my name pretty quickly and pretty much started living as a man. Now I’ve had top surgery and waiting to start T.

Have these changes started to make you feel more comfortable in your life and body?

fck yeah. I don’t think I would be alive right now if I didn’t transition. Gender confirming care is life saving.

What would you tell your younger self? Would you do anything differently?

You don’t need to act a certain way to be accepted. Just be the guy you’ve always been, not the guy the world wants you to be. Also be careful who you surround yourself with, protect your peace. One day you’ll find people who love you for you.

Is there anything else you'd like to share?

Protect trans youth.

Have the gender-affirming steps you’ve taken impacted your overall happiness and sense of well-being?

Yes.