Ollie, United Kingdom (he/him)

“I'd tell my younger self that (…) I can still be loved and have a fulfilling life.“

Was there a definitive moment you realized you were trans? How old were you?

I was around 15 when I realised, I thought it was just a blokeish lesbian. It was only when I moved schools and met someone who was trans it seemed to click for me. There were signs from a really young age.

How soon after did you start to make changes? What were these changes?

I couldn't start making changes until I was 20 as my family doesn’t accept me. On Christmas day 2020, I shaved my hair for the first time and it felt so empowering. I also wore my binder for the first time that day and seeing my chest flat, gave me a sense of self I've never felt before. Seeing myself in the mirror made me feel at peace for the first time in my life.

Have these changes started to make you feel more comfortable in your life and body?

Definitely.

What would you tell your younger self? Would you do anything differently?

I'd tell my younger self that despite my family hating me because I'm trans, I can still be loved and have a fulfilling life.

Do you have a favorite/funny transition moment?

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Is there anything else you'd like to share?

Having what is classified as a 'severe' mental illness hasn't stopped me getting access to hormones.

Have the gender-affirming steps you’ve taken impacted your overall happiness and sense of well-being?

Yes.