Kristopher, United States (he/him)

"I feel like a real person instead of a ghost."

What made you realize you were trans? How old were you?

I've always been a boy. Even when I was young, I'm talking less than ten, I asked my mom if girls ever grow up into men. I always knew.

When did you start making changes? What were these changes?

I started transitioning in my senior year of high school, which mostly just amounted to changing my name. People called me a boy before then anyways. I started testosterone during the 2020 pandemic, and had to wear a mask to my first appointment. I got top surgery in 2023.

Have these changes started to make you feel more comfortable in your life and body?

Absolutely. I don't know if I'd even still be alive if I hadn't transitioned. I feel like a real person instead of a ghost.

What would you tell your younger self? Would you do anything differently?

Start transitioning now. I know it's scary, and I know it's dangerous. You're gonna lose friends and be treated like garbage. But it'll be worth it. You'll be happier as a boy than you ever would be as a girl.

Is there anything else you'd like to share?

The only thing I regret about transitioning is that I didn't do it sooner.

Have the gender-affirming steps you’ve taken impacted your overall happiness and sense of well-being?

Yes.