Remington, United States (he/him)

"I've never once regretted or doubted the steps I've taken to be myself."

What made you realize you were trans? How old were you?

I realized I wasn't "normal" (I wasn't aware of trans people at this time) around 9 years old when I started noticing differences between me and other boys my age. I eventually learned what being trans was at 12 years old and realized that's who I was.

When did you start making changes? What were these changes?

My first change was at 13 years old when I first started going by he/him pronouns and my new name. At 14 I had come out to everyone around me and cut my hair. At 17, I had started testosterone. At 19, I had top surgery. And now, at almost 21, I am preparing for a hysterectomy.

Have these changes started to make you feel more comfortable in your life and body?

These changes have greatly improved my confidence, sense of self, happiness, and overall quality of life. My body and reflection is no longer that of a stranger. Starting my medical transition in specific has done so much in how I view myself, how I interact with others, my confidence, my chances at career opportunities, my willingness to meet new people and be a part of new experiences, and so much more. Every aspect of my life has improved for the better thanks to transition.

What would you tell your younger self? Would you do anything differently?

I'd tell my younger self to just hang in there, really. To start imagining a better life. To set higher hopes and standards for myself. However, in regards to my transition, there is nothing I'd do differently. Every step has been important and meaningful in figuring myself out and becoming comfortable as myself. I've never once regretted or doubted the steps I've taken to be myself.

Is there anything else you'd like to share?

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Have the gender-affirming steps you’ve taken impacted your overall happiness and sense of well-being?

Yes.