Nikoli, United States (he/him)

“Don't waste your life pretending for everyone else. Live for YOU."

Was there a definitive moment you realized you were trans? How old were you?

I always knew I was different. I was dressing in my brother's clothes as early as 10.

How soon after did you start to make changes? What were these changes?

I didn't start making changes until I was 32 (hair cut, mens clothes going by my chosen name. Came out in 2020. Medical changes in 2022.)

Have these changes started to make you feel more comfortable in your life and body?

Yes.

What would you tell your younger self? Would you do anything differently?

Don't waste your life pretending for everyone else. Live for YOU.

Is there anything else you'd like to share?

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Have the gender-affirming steps you’ve taken impacted your overall happiness and sense of well-being?

Yes.