TransMascStories is a resource for trans men and trans masculine individuals at the start of their transition journey. Explore anonymous transition stories of others or share your story to pay it forward.
Aaron, Taiwan (he/him)
“I hope someday to let go of being transgender as an identity focus and channel my energy toward other meaningful goals in life.”
onT • 30to40 • he/him
Alec, Canada (he/him)
“I feel like I know a lot better who I am now.“
onT • 30to40 • he/him
Corin, Australia (he/they)
“Decouple "transition" from "transgender". Being trans is who you are. If, and how you transition does not make you less trans, or not trans.“
onT • 30to40 • he/they
Sam, United Kingdom (he/him)
“Remember who you are and build up a network of the people who really support you.“
onT • 30to40 • he/him
Ezzo, United States (he/they)
“I gave up a lot to transition but I have gotten back even more."
onT • 30to40 • he/they
Con, United States (he/him)
“One day we get to be free of all of those constraints we thought would be on us forever"
onT • 30to40 • he/him
L, Canada (he/him)
“You'll figure it out, give it time. Just try not to be so angry :)"
onT • 30to40 • he/him
W.A., United States (he/they)
“I would tell my younger self to trust yourself, stop the noise or fear from letting you meet yourself."
onT • 30to40 • he/they
Will, United States (he/him)
"Every aching step is worth it because it takes you closer to your goal. We're in this together, so let's keep fighting."
onT • 30to40 • he/him
Discover your gender identity
The question “Am I trans?” can feel overwhelming, especially with the abundance of guidance based on traditional markers like “trans childhood experiences” or specific forms of dysphoria. Realizing that you may want to transition is a deeply personal journey, often with more layers than any checklist or single experience can capture. If you’re unsure whether transitioning is right for you, perhaps this collection of resources will help you gain more clarity.
Why “TransMascStories”?
When I first started exploring the idea of transitioning, I didn’t immediately see myself as a binary trans man. The term “trans masculine” felt more approachable at the time, as the gap between how I looked and how I felt inside was too wide to fully embrace being a man. This is why I chose the name “TransMascStories” to create a bridge for others who are just beginning their transition journey.
Ultimately, the goal of this project is to showcase the full spectrum of trans masculine journeys, regardless of whether someone identifies strictly as a man. By using “trans masc,” I hope to invite stories from anyone who has taken steps to feel more at home in their body, embracing the many ways trans masculine identities can exist.
No label fits all, however, I am trying to be as inclusive as I can. Read more about the project here.
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