TransMascStories is a resource for trans men and trans masculine individuals at the start of their transition journey. Explore anonymous transition stories of others or share your story to pay it forward.

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Meik Meik

Miska, Finland (he/him)

“I wish I'd known some of what I know now. I wish I'd been louder about it, more visible, even if it would've gotten me hurt. I wish I'd lived harder."

onT • 20to30 • he/him

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Meik Meik

Ben, Sweden (he/him)

“The social changes immediately made me feel more confident in who I was, but starting hormones has been life-changing."

onT • 20to30 • he/him

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Meik Meik

Luka, Denmark (he/him)

“I'd tell my younger self to think a bit more about the name change. (…) I changed my name legally before I'd even tried out that name properly which I do regret."

onT • 10to20 • he/him

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Meik Meik

LJ, United Kingdom (he/him)

“I had dysphoria, I just didn't know what it was and thought everyone had these thoughts about their bodies."

onT • 10to20 • he/him

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Discover your gender identity

The question “Am I trans?” can feel overwhelming, especially with the abundance of guidance based on traditional markers like “trans childhood experiences” or specific forms of dysphoria. Realizing that you may want to transition is a deeply personal journey, often with more layers than any checklist or single experience can capture. If you’re unsure whether transitioning is right for you, perhaps this collection of resources will help you gain more clarity.

Why “TransMascStories”?

When I first started exploring the idea of transitioning, I didn’t immediately see myself as a binary trans man. The term “trans masculine” felt more approachable at the time, as the gap between how I looked and how I felt inside was too wide to fully embrace being a man. This is why I chose the name “TransMascStories” to create a bridge for others who are just beginning their transition journey.

Ultimately, the goal of this project is to showcase the full spectrum of trans masculine journeys, regardless of whether someone identifies strictly as a man. By using “trans masc,” I hope to invite stories from anyone who has taken steps to feel more at home in their body, embracing the many ways trans masculine identities can exist.

No label fits all, however, I am trying to be as inclusive as I can. Read more about the project here.

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