TransMascStories is a resource for trans men and trans masculine individuals at the start of their transition journey. Explore anonymous transition stories of others or share your story to pay it forward.

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Andreas, United States (he/they)

"I always resonated more with the guys in my friend groups than the girls."

10to20 • he/they

Meik 10/13/24 Meik 10/13/24

Riley, United States (they/them)

"Now, after T (…), I'm finding comfort in becoming more feminine."

onT • 10to20 • they/them

Meik 10/13/24 Meik 10/13/24

Alex, Canada (he/they)

“Sometimes in one’s darkest moments, there’s just enough light shining that you can see your true reflection."

onT • 20to30 • he/they

Meik 10/13/24 Meik 10/13/24

Nathan, United States (he/him)

“All that anger and fear you feel will one day be peace and happiness."

onT • 10to20 • he/him

Meik 10/12/24 Meik 10/12/24

Scott, United States (he/him)

“Don't beat yourself up for not being able to be where you wanna be now. Everyone has a different journey."

onT • 10to20 • he/him

Meik 10/9/24 Meik 10/9/24

Ezzo, United States (he/they)

“I gave up a lot to transition but I have gotten back even more."

onT • 30to40 • he/they

Meik 10/8/24 Meik 10/8/24

Sirius, United Kingdom (he/him)

“You knew who you wanted to be; you became it."

onT • 10to20 • he/him

Meik 10/7/24 Meik 10/7/24

Charlie, United States (he/they)

"It's nice to just exist as a fruity effeminate dude."

onT • 10to20 • he/they

Meik 10/5/24 Meik 10/5/24

Con, United States (he/him)

“One day we get to be free of all of those constraints we thought would be on us forever"

onT • 30to40 • he/him

Discover your gender identity

The question “Am I trans?” can feel overwhelming, especially with the abundance of guidance based on traditional markers like “trans childhood experiences” or specific forms of dysphoria. Realizing that you may want to transition is a deeply personal journey, often with more layers than any checklist or single experience can capture. If you’re unsure whether transitioning is right for you, perhaps this collection of resources will help you gain more clarity.

Why “TransMascStories”?

When I first started exploring the idea of transitioning, I didn’t immediately see myself as a binary trans man. The term “trans masculine” felt more approachable at the time, as the gap between how I looked and how I felt inside was too wide to fully embrace being a man. This is why I chose the name “TransMascStories” to create a bridge for others who are just beginning their transition journey.

Ultimately, the goal of this project is to showcase the full spectrum of trans masculine journeys, regardless of whether someone identifies strictly as a man. By using “trans masc,” I hope to invite stories from anyone who has taken steps to feel more at home in their body, embracing the many ways trans masculine identities can exist.

No label fits all, however, I am trying to be as inclusive as I can. Read more about the project here.

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